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Aug 24 2008, 01:32 AM |
I can probably help u, I live with three women
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Aug 24 2008, 01:34 AM |
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Aug 24 2008, 04:14 PM |
I can probably help u, I live with three women Nice one Sigma And to you Jeroen, don't worry too much mate, we have all been down the line at some point in our lives, one way or another. In those situations, figuring out how bad situation is is not gonna feel you any better. You just have to think about all the good things, and how to work out all the bad things the best way you can. Fear of failure to resolve your problems, fear to face them, and also fear that it will require a lot of time is something most people are afraid to and dwelve even depper into troubles. So be brave man, and be positive. If you need help, please PM. -------------------- - Ivan's Video Chat Lesson Notes HERE
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Aug 25 2008, 04:14 AM |
ya i have two cats and every time i get depressed or flip out with OCD, my cats cheer me up and put my mind elsewhere
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Aug 25 2008, 08:16 AM |
Since you're aware of all the bad parts and wrong doings you had to put up with growing up I'm positive you will not repeate the same errors someday when you're a dad and have a family to care for. I'm suggesting that in the future there's a wife and kids that can rest asure you'll be true to them.
That's something you should pass on! I.e don't repeat someone elses or your own mistakes when caring for your own family. For the respect and honor of your late mother. Very sad to hear she passed away. But surely she had hopes for you having a good life? I think you should grab onto that thought and honor it by being the best man possible, the best kid she could wish for. You know she struggled when you were growing up. Just make all her work worth it. -------------------- My bands homepage
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Aug 25 2008, 12:50 PM |
You had some tough periods in life that's for sure man. Still you must be able to let go your past, and move on with your life. When you feel you have depression, it is best to try to do some kind of a hobby that will divert your thoughts from it. For example when I had some tough periods in my life I practiced the guitar like crazy and this was the positive thing I did in those moment. Bare in mind that a key word in your life should be POSITIVE. No matter what you do, no matter where you go, and no matter what happens, try to have some work done and do something creative. It will boost your self esteem, and you will get a feeling of accomplishment.
These kind of things in life will bring out the best in you. If you have a period of depression, you don't get much done, and when you're drunk you can't really think and do things properly. This is just a waste of your precious life time. Life is short and we all need to live it as much as we can. Go hang out with other people, but STAY AWAY from people that abuse alcohol even if they are your best friends. This is not the kind of people you need in your life when you're dealing with alcohol addiction, so it is best to keep away from places where you will drink. Of course, glass of beer, or two won't harm you, it is perfectly normal. But getting your self drunk from time to time is not a good thing. So to sum up, be positive positive positive. Even if you feel that you're overwhelmed with negative thoughts, like in periods of depression, force yourself to feel positive, get something done, clean up your room spotless, practice 4 hours straight, learn something new. Now don't get me wrong, these things will not help you to feel better straight away. Only when doing these things over a longer period of time will produce some results. So don't wait for a miracle to happen. There is no tip of the iceberg, you are aware of your problems, you just need to start slowly to get a grip over your life. I know it's hard, but try it, and in a year or two, with the power of will and self discipline you will get back on track and put bad things behind you. Problems require time, that's all, and you must be consantly keeping positive things flowing, and lay off any negative influences, like alcohol, alcohol buddies, thoughts about your negative past, just think about the present, and take one step at a time, don't make big plans for the future, life is very strange and hard (as you already know), and it is best to live it in the present the best way you can. Good luck mate, and keep positive attitude. -------------------- - Ivan's Video Chat Lesson Notes HERE
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