Oups,it's been a while since you posted this,sorry!!
So,basicly you're seeking for the answer you don't wanna hear.

Ok,I've been expanding my music vocabulary by listening to many players.
It would be hard to list just a few of them cause
hundreds of players have influenced me.
You pick one of many famous or less famous players
and I surely learned something from him.

But if you're just looking for my style only (tho I'm not sure if I have my own style yet)
then you should go for all my lessons at GMC
and some stuff aside,like Youtube,my album etc.
Tho I wouldn't suggest you to focus on just one player.

About "crazy" bands, not sure if I got your point
but I guess you're seeking for some powerful
sounding bends at the ends of lick or certain run?
Well,as I tried to explain in other thread,
bend is just another way of playing certain note
or connecting 2 notes,more like smooth sliding
without hearing frets.
So all you have to do is to chose desired note
you wanna end with and then simply apply bend to reach it.
Another idea to do crazy band is to
break the strings but that is not an option I guess.

Now scales.
It would be totally wrong to say my favorite scale is x or y.
Scale is base for everything,chord progression,
melodic line,soloing etc.
Whatever you play you're using certain scale and its notes.
And each of them gives us different spectrum of sounds
so it's all up to us to decide what kind of music we wanna make atm.
But lets say that most common scales in todays are
Minor,Major,Min/Maj pentatonics,Harmonic Minor,
Dorian,Mixolydian,Phrygian and Lydian.
I hope this answers some of your questions,
please ask if you need more info
and once more my apology for delay.