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Dec 31 2016, 03:46 PM |
Hello folks,
Further to THIS post of mine I'd like to run this by you all. I wanted to keep it in a seperate thread though I've been wondering about something and if it's correct, I don't know how to break it. I've tried two or three level three lessons now and given up on all but my current Jack White one. I'm always saying to myself and others, "I can't see me ever managing to complete a level 3 lesson, there's always one part I can't do". I'm wondering if my thoughts are inhibiting me. The problem is, if that's what I believe, then it doesn't matter if I try affirmation techniques because I need to truly believe that I can. I don't know how to break this mindset if it is that what is causing my issue. They say the mind is powerful so what are your thoughts on this? How can someone change what they believe about themselves? Cheers folks This post has been edited by Phil66: Dec 31 2016, 03:49 PM -------------------- SEE MY GMC CERTIFICATE “Success is not obtained overnight. It comes in instalments; you get a little bit today, a little bit tomorrow until the whole package is given out. The day you procrastinate, you lose that day's success.” Israelmore Ayivor |
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Jan 1 2017, 11:33 AM |
Thanks folks,
I've never been a quitter but sometimes I can be a flitter, when something gets to hard I look for something else that I might achieve eg a different lesson. The problem with that is I don't fix my problem area. The other thing is, the lesson can get stale when you keep playing the same thing but not being it quite right. Cheers -------------------- SEE MY GMC CERTIFICATE “Success is not obtained overnight. It comes in instalments; you get a little bit today, a little bit tomorrow until the whole package is given out. The day you procrastinate, you lose that day's success.” Israelmore Ayivor |
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Jan 1 2017, 05:22 PM |
Thanks monkey
That thought in my head about not being able to complete a level 3 lesson is something I'm really trying to shake. It's hard to change a true belief not matter what you actually say but believe me I am trying Maybe part of it is the masters make thing look deceptively easy and I expect too much too soon, also the fact that I had a friend who could learn something by ear in no time. For instance, having never heard Surfin" With The Alien before he borrowed the cd from me, went home at 11pm, worked his job the next day and I called him at 6pm the following day to arrange going down the pub and he said "have a listen to this and tell me what you think", he put the phone on the shelf and played the whole of the track on his Les Paul with no backing, he played everything obviously he had no whammy bar but he played that part with the initial notes and it was100% recognisable. It was incredible and he was so humble about it all. I think it's things like that that haven't helped my expectations of myself. Thanks for your advice buddy, I appreciate it. Cheers -------------------- SEE MY GMC CERTIFICATE “Success is not obtained overnight. It comes in instalments; you get a little bit today, a little bit tomorrow until the whole package is given out. The day you procrastinate, you lose that day's success.” Israelmore Ayivor |
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Jan 4 2017, 07:58 AM |
forget about the goal.
Don't think about mastering it Just decide to spend time practicing it and the bits you can't do -------------------- My SoundCloud
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Jan 4 2017, 08:05 AM |
Thanks for your advice buddy.
Phil -------------------- SEE MY GMC CERTIFICATE “Success is not obtained overnight. It comes in instalments; you get a little bit today, a little bit tomorrow until the whole package is given out. The day you procrastinate, you lose that day's success.” Israelmore Ayivor |
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Jan 4 2017, 10:26 AM |
Wow Si,
Thanks for that in depth reply. I too am 50, I've had guitars for 30 years but only ever noodled. I had a couple of guitar teachers, one was basically a busker and I only worked with open chords and very simple lead. The other was Simon Lees who won Guitarist Magazine's Guitarist Of The Year, I didn't progress very much. That was the mid to late 90's. Since joining GMC I feel I've come on more than ever so that's a positive. I don't know if you read the post above about my friend and Surfin' but maybe that ingrained a false sense of expectation. I practise solidly, I don't flit about even though the temptation is there after playing the same two bars for an hour. I work on my current GMC lesson and a classic rock song (currently Breaking the Law, I've learnt Rock Steady and Highway to He'll too but not the solos, I just improvise as they are too hard at the moment), and that's my hour and a half taken up, recording and making videos for Gab to view has to come out of my time allocation too. I am very focused and have no distractions whilst practising. I only miss practice when life or work take a wrong turn. Thanks for taking an interest and taking the time for me Si, I appreciate it. Cheers Phil -------------------- SEE MY GMC CERTIFICATE “Success is not obtained overnight. It comes in instalments; you get a little bit today, a little bit tomorrow until the whole package is given out. The day you procrastinate, you lose that day's success.” Israelmore Ayivor |
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Jan 4 2017, 03:23 PM
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Phil,
I didn't mean to offend - just to give some help if possible based on my own nightmare journey! Good luck, Si |
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Jan 4 2017, 03:28 PM |
Si mate,
I never once felt offended, 100% not and I'm sorry if I gave that impression. I deeply appreciate any help anyone offers and yours was really in-depth so thanks again for giving me your time. Cheers buddy Phil -------------------- SEE MY GMC CERTIFICATE “Success is not obtained overnight. It comes in instalments; you get a little bit today, a little bit tomorrow until the whole package is given out. The day you procrastinate, you lose that day's success.” Israelmore Ayivor |
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Jan 5 2017, 08:46 AM |
Thanks Todd,
Yeah there have been some very helpful replies and they have given me encouragement and hope. I find the journey hard to embrace when the bland scenery doesn't change for weeks, that's where I falter, when I don't improve even a single bpm for two or three or more weeks. It makes me feel like an underachiever. Cheers buddy. -------------------- SEE MY GMC CERTIFICATE “Success is not obtained overnight. It comes in instalments; you get a little bit today, a little bit tomorrow until the whole package is given out. The day you procrastinate, you lose that day's success.” Israelmore Ayivor |
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Jan 5 2017, 12:47 PM |
I only really posted this at the time because Gab was on holiday, I never really post problems with lessons I'm having with Gab because he is my mentor and a very good one. I just feel like I'm going behind his back but as he was on holiday I didn't feel so bad.
Cheers Todd, I hope you understand -------------------- SEE MY GMC CERTIFICATE “Success is not obtained overnight. It comes in instalments; you get a little bit today, a little bit tomorrow until the whole package is given out. The day you procrastinate, you lose that day's success.” Israelmore Ayivor |
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Jan 6 2017, 09:11 PM |
Thanks for understanding Todd, it's not that I don't appreciate anyone's help, it just goes against the grain with me to ask when Gab is around, the best of it is, I know he wouldn't mind me asking for other people's opinions
Anyway, here is last nights take, I'm hard right, it is at 65bpm (original is 90bpm) https://soundcloud.com/gmcphil-1/jack-white-phil-and-gab-65bpm -------------------- SEE MY GMC CERTIFICATE “Success is not obtained overnight. It comes in instalments; you get a little bit today, a little bit tomorrow until the whole package is given out. The day you procrastinate, you lose that day's success.” Israelmore Ayivor |
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