Marriage - A Warning To You All |
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Marriage - A Warning To You All |
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Nov 27 2014, 10:46 AM |
Only joking I love being married, I've got a great wife but....
I went through an old hard drive and saw how much I recorded and wrote when I was miserable and single. Don't waste the opportunities!!!! -------------------- My SoundCloud
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Nov 28 2014, 11:45 PM |
I wouldn't say I'm very experienced in this department as I haven't been married for long (pushing two months) ....but I think it is very important to have the right surroundings when it comes to what we do (music). I'm lucky that even though my wife doesn't play an instrument, she is a huge fan of music and always liked what I do and understood it correctly. Her approach is to just stay away. Basically, she would just let me do my thing and don't interrupt or be in the way in any case. She knows how important it is to me.
She got to witness lots of band rehearsals and situations where girlfriends of other band members would interrupt and try to become a part of the process like its some kind of social hangout even though they are "not qualified" hehe Those are situations (sometimes a bit tense due to time limits etc) where the band would be composing new songs, trying out different ideas etc. I always found such situations very intimate where band members would be fully focused and in those situations if there are 3rd persons giving opinion and trying to influence the tune in making - well that never came out good at least in my experience. Its ok and advisable to get as much 2nd opinion as possible after the song is done and you are happy with it personally but I find it distractive and kinda weird when someones girlfriend would go randomly in the middle of the process "why don't you sing it like this" : [singing something out of tune and random] ....and than we are expected to politely deny it not to hurt her feelings I'm currently feeling very inspired musically and writing music or just being creative has always driven me. It feels so good to finish a new song you were working on for so long + there is an additional satisfaction when you finally get to record it and set in stone the "final version of it". Also, when you look at it - songs you record and publish will stay out there forever and when you get old you can just put on the tunes and remember "the good ol' days" It also always fascinated me that music nowadays (published digitally for example) basically stays out there forever and all the future generations and generations will be able to listen to it. -------------------- For GMC support please email support (at) guitarmasterclass.net
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Dec 1 2014, 04:24 PM |
I just went with 8 other guys to a beach house to eat, play table tennis, eat, play board games, eat and eat some more thursday to sunday, and our girlfriends/wifes all allow this. If not I guess I would be running. Then in the summer my girl friend gets to spend a week preparing a medieval festival. I do that as does my wife sometimes (take time away from the family). We have a mortgage and a 5 year old. We leave junior with grandma and grandpa for a week every year. Not all kids make a constant mess. Mine's relatively low maintenance as kids go. It all depends on who you pick and how you want to live your life - ? *I got married 'late', at 44 and had a kid at 47. I got a lot of bullshit out of my system prior. This post has been edited by klasaine: Dec 2 2014, 03:44 AM -------------------- - Ken Lasaine
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