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Jan 31 2009, 09:16 PM
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QUOTE (MickeM @ Jan 31 2009, 01:49 PM)  Going to a doctor may help in the sense of putting a name to whatever makes you feel alienated. ADHD, Asperger or whatever four letter diagnosis there is. Saying a doctor isn't an option sounds to me like a rather defensive position. If something is wrong you would want to know, right? And if there's something that can be medicated you would want to know, right? There are plenty of people with social disturbances that have no idea, and they can feel they don't fit in, they don't get the social interaction that goes on between people and they can find it meaningless. This in turn can make it difficult to find and aid these people, since they often think the world around them is impossible to understand and it's not them but it's all the people and their purposes that are meaningless - it's not for them. Seeing that you repeadely say "no" and "it's no use" tells me it maybe is no use or very difficult to reach through. It has to come from within yourself and you have to take the initiative. Just read this and see if anything makes sense http://pt.wikipedia.org/wiki/S%C3%ADndrome_de_Asperger The one in portuguese differs alot from the one in english... The english one is frightenly simmiliar to me, I'm getting afraid o.o -------------------- Currently Practicing
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Jan 31 2009, 11:54 PM
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QUOTE (Rated Htr @ Jan 31 2009, 09:16 PM) The one in portuguese differs alot from the one in english... The english one is frightenly simmiliar to me, I'm getting afraid o.o I thought the Portuguese was almost the same, sorry, good thing you found the english one then. All stages doesn't have to be fully developed but it also counts in degrees of the full thing. There was a documentary on the TV some time ago about this man who grew up feeling all alienated, he couldn't socialize - he saw his smaller brothers get friends while he didn't understand the play. He had to learn everything and make acts to fit in. F.ex (made up by me, not in the documentary) if a stranger on the bus had mentioned the weather he could think "just look out the window and see for yourself, it's sunny" but feel very insecure about what to say. But after learning the play of socializing he'd know how to act, be polite and reply something, it's just small talk "Yes, it's a very nice day we're having hope tomorrow will be the same". Not neccessarily because he likes the sun or hope tomorrow will be the same. He might prefer rain so he can spend his time inside without seeing useless people. But having learned hot to interact and what to say he could function just like any normal person would, spite his Asperger syndrome. Just by looking at him or talking to him you couldn't tell. Because he was putting on an act and pretending real well. Just one example of things. Another is to only see things as black or white, friend or foe. Nothing in between. You read it so you know. Awareness is key they say. Knowing about it and you're able to deal with it. Not knowing everything just feels wierd. And it's difficult for doctors to makea diagnosis, appearantly it takes quite a long time to determine. So don't be scared or upset, if you want to deal with it (maybe just to rule it out) there are specialists to discuss with. -------------------- My bands homepage
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Feb 1 2009, 01:31 PM
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Just tell us why you can't. We might know a solution.
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Feb 1 2009, 01:53 PM
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Why you can't go seek professional advice!
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