As I said, this is the only guitar forum I've seen where noone is is a jerk, and everyone is polite and helpful. But alot of guitar forums are overly critical, and it seems like there is an ongoing insult competition(not all guitar forums, but alot of them).
Personally, I think the guy in the article I posted hit the nail on the head.
Ego: I thought he was right on this one, having self confidence is important, it can get you past those lows that everyone experiences. And yes, there are guitarists who think they are the best guitar player in the world. But being respectful, polite, humble, and confident are great characteristics to have(if you don't want to be a jerk). It's common courtesy, but I know some people just don't care if they are a jerk or not.
Talk vs Walk: I think it's pretty important to not to criticize someone unless it's constructive, it helps them, and most of the time, they'll return the favor if you ever ask for some help! I've seen way to many people just say, "You suck noob", wow that's a constructive statement.
And I hate it when people insult someone better than them, that's just sad.
Hate Mail, IMO is just dumb, if you don't like someone, don't talk to them, don't listen to their music, just don't associate yourself with them. Hate Mail is so sad, because people are E-Mailing you insults, even when the person knows nothing about you, it's like someone sending you a letter that says you suck, you just throw it away, I don't know why people do it, I don't take them seriously at all.
Guitar Forums: I don't know why everyone on forums think they have to criticize great players to fit in, or all other players for that matter, I too have seen every great guitarist ever insulted, I can't believe people insult an electric guitar pioneer like Jimi Hendrix
! It's kind of annoying, but if you realise that ultimately, what they post in forums doesn't really matter in real life. But it's not just guitar forums, it's music forums too, why people think it's cool to be a jerk in forums is beyond me, maybe because they get teased and picked on in real life, have feelings of inadequacy, don't have enough confidence in real life to insult people in real life...who knows?
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