Domestic Violence, :( |
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Domestic Violence, :( |
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Feb 1 2009, 08:44 PM |
I don't have time right now to write a long reply though I wish I could.
A dad with no empathy and no knowledge of what his action does to others. Asperger can be inheritated so if your brother got it too, well... not a match made in heaven. What your dad will understand is if you tell him next time you'll call the police. Able or unable to reason and understand consequences he's fully aware what he does isn't appreciated by the low enforcement. You could tell him a thousand times to stop hitting your brother but that'll neber stop. Can't tell you what to do though but appearantly he's leaving you alone though? So perhaps it's safe for you to tell your dad the consequences with the police if he continues. I'm not sure he will care and just think you're goofing around so if you tell him, be prepared to make the call next time. That's my advice. Could be awful, at least it's not professional. You could get professional advice you know, which will most certainly involve authorities too, but then atleast you got it from someone with training. Ni kids deserve to be beaten up. What this does to your brother one can only guess. For certain is, if he has the same problem your dad does (hence no social interaction knowledge comes for free but must be learned and there are a full scale inbetween on and off ), is that he learns that fists > reason. And in the long run that could go very bad. You, your brother and mother will feel a lot better without the abuse. EDIT: And after calling the police the only way out may be moving away. Sounds like your mom is the only one with that problem. I think she could be brought to see it's important her kids are safe This post has been edited by MickeM: Feb 1 2009, 08:54 PM -------------------- My bands homepage
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Feb 1 2009, 08:44 PM
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Very tough situation! Sorry to hear about it. Nobody wins with divorce but it might be a better option than the current situation. Wish I could be of more help.
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