Betrayed, My family is falling apart...any advice |
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Betrayed, My family is falling apart...any advice |
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Feb 29 2008, 02:36 AM |
Sorry to hear that
Never been in a situation directly like that, but i've experienced 2nd hand what can happen when a parent introduces kids to bad elements. I hope things will work out for you and the kids. -------------------- Guitars: Schecter Stiletto Classic, Jackson SLSMG, Ibanez RG-380 Japan, Gibson Les Paul Studio
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Mar 3 2008, 01:10 AM |
Sorry to hear mate! It's difficult, if you say impossible to give advice about this. But you caring about your kids first sounds like the best thing to do.
Her bad upbringing, as you put it, may cause her problems such as you're a kind husband while she's used to an alcoholic father. Big collision there if she can't feel "sequre" as it is. If you're concidering forgiving here I hope you can pin point the problem, solve it and restart. Kids need both a mom and a dad and they love you both. I hope for their sake there will not be a war for custody. You've showed to be loving and caring about your kids while your wife been not thinking of consequences at all. When couples have kids, it's for real. I'm glad to see you're responsible about them. I wish you all the best sorting this out. -------------------- My bands homepage
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Mar 3 2008, 09:12 AM |
I have forgiven her, but we will be going our separate ways. We've been talking the last couple of days, where we discussed some of my concerns, and we both want to remain on good terms for the kids sake. She really does need some time on her own to work out some personal problems. This may be a blessing in disguise, and who knows what the future holds. The important thing is that my children will still have both of us in their lives; and we can still have family days without the both of us ripping each other apart. It still hurts, but I'm gonna be alright. Glad to hear that you're doing alright. Just drop a few lines now and then when you need a bunch of friends to support you. -------------------- My bands homepage
All time favourites: B. Streisand - Woman in Love, M. Hopkin - Those were the days, L. Richie - Hello |
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