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Mar 26 2009, 05:21 PM
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Did you talk with her about it? I guess you two will work your way out of this problem through an honest conversation. Don't be afraid to talk sincere with her, and have patience it shes afraid to talk. You don't have to be with that girl if she's giving you a hard time, try to find a way out of it. If you feel that she is not too into your relationship just ask her what she feels about it. If you approach her with an honest way of thinking and tell her the truth, and she doesn't approve that, or tries to talk her way out of it, without giving you the sincere answer, then my friend, perhaps it is time to find another (more honest) girl.
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Mar 26 2009, 05:23 PM
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Talk to the subject of all gossip - Her.
Usually there's no smoke without a fire  Demand some honesty and get it over with once and for all.
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Mar 26 2009, 07:49 PM
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QUOTE (TreyDeschamp @ Mar 26 2009, 06:54 PM)  The thing is everytime I talk to her about it she gets mad at me and is all like "Why do you choose to believe them" it really annoys me too because I never do believe the people but when I'm straight up about it like she always tells me she wants me to be she gets extremly upset and I'm just confused on what to do so yeah..... If she knows getting upset is an easy way to get you to back off she'll use that to avoid a discussion. Why would she want to avoid a discussion? Find out why and you've come quite a bit closer. It's not like "you choose to belive your friends", like she says, since you ask her - you want to hear the truth from her. A good meter is to look back at how her character was before she met you. Like, if she had a boyfriend and had you on the side before you got together - it's not impossible she hasn't grown passed that yet. For example. -------------------- My bands homepage
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Mar 26 2009, 08:35 PM
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As everyone already stated, communication is the key... Also think about the reasons why people are telling you all those stories... are they people that want to help you? Are they different people or the same group? Do they have something against her/you?
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Mar 27 2009, 06:00 AM
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As everyone said, try talking with her again about it..
You could also propose her an ''open relation''. Then you can stay with her and date other girls. Moderated. Edited cause of bad choice of word. /Micke -------------------- LIVE FOR STEEL - DIE FOR STEEL!!!
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but I would never agree to that myself.
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Mar 27 2009, 11:11 AM
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I agree with Marcus here. It's also not good advice to give to a teenager.
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Mar 27 2009, 01:42 PM
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justa small addition but very important. Come prepared!!!!
Go through every scenario and prepare your answers and especially your actions to different outcomes. If you get some overwhelming news you wouldn't want to make your desicion at that point while thought might be swirling around your head. Instead - Have all the answers and actions made up! If you come to the crossroad Farmer Joe talks about, you don't want to stand open mouthed unable to speak, you would want to be prepared on what to say and what to do. -------------------- My bands homepage
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Mar 27 2009, 01:46 PM
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You got some really good answers here already, so I'm just gonna say that I hope you'll resolve this quickly and without too much pain!
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Mar 27 2009, 01:59 PM
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People say that all the wars are because of women
 hahahI had a relationship for over 6 years and I loved that person so much. When similar thing happened to yours then I wasn't feeling well for about 1 year but I did break up. Everything later showed who deserves the (engineer's prize*). Rock on man and believe me there is a whole world of nice ladies. My advice is to break up now because later you can suffer much more. * that's the way I call the God. -------------------- Check out my <a href="https://www.guitarmasterclass.net/instructor/Emir-Hot" target="_blank">Instructor profile</a>
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