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javari View Member Profile	Feb 1 2009, 09:43 PM
Feb 1 2009, 09:43 PM	GMC:er Posts: 80 Joined: 3-July 07	QUOTE (Kristofer Dahl @ Feb 1 2009, 09:38 PM) Because of the sensitive nature of this topic as well as our forum guidelines I would like to ask Jesse and Javari to post in English so that moderators can understand your posts, thanks! just because it is sensitive I choose to reply in his own language. I guess you have to trust us on this one... You are at GuitarMasterClass.net Don't miss today's free lick. Plus all our lessons are packed with free content! Don't miss today's free blues, jazz & country licks. Plus all our lessons are packed with free content! -------------------- Guitars: Fender US standard Strat, Gibson Les Paul Standard Amps: Fender Princeton Recording Amp, H&K Statesman Dual EL84 Effects: Pod XT, Keeley TS808, Keeley DS-1, RAT

sted View Member Profile	Feb 1 2009, 09:54 PM
Feb 1 2009, 09:54 PM	Learning Rock Star Posts: 1.758 Joined: 13-April 08 From: Merseyside, UK	Get help man, if not for your sake then your brothers, if you are cut up he must be going through hell. In UK we have a "child line" which kids can call in absolute confidence, the link below sounds like something similar for your country. http://www.ombudsnet.org/Organisations/vie...&fromEnoc=y our hearts go with you. You are at GuitarMasterClass.net Don't miss today's free lick. Plus all our lessons are packed with free content! Don't miss today's free blues, jazz & country licks. Plus all our lessons are packed with free content!

Rated Htr View Member Profile	Feb 1 2009, 09:55 PM
Feb 1 2009, 09:55 PM	Experienced Rock Star Posts: 2.119 Joined: 15-October 07 From: Leiria, Portugal	Said it on msn bro... Hope you get over the situation You are at GuitarMasterClass.net Don't miss today's free lick. Plus all our lessons are packed with free content! Don't miss today's free blues, jazz & country licks. Plus all our lessons are packed with free content! -------------------- Currently Practicing Rhythm: Finnish Power Metal III: Nightwish Legato: Ben's Land Of Legato Alternate Picking: Alternate Picking Workout #5 Chords: Chord Melody Technique

enforcer View Member Profile	Feb 1 2009, 10:43 PM
Feb 1 2009, 10:43 PM	GMC:er Posts: 1.202 Joined: 23-September 08 From: Istanbul	Does your father drink? Does he do all this things in the influence of alchool? You are at GuitarMasterClass.net Don't miss today's free lick. Plus all our lessons are packed with free content! Don't miss today's free blues, jazz & country licks. Plus all our lessons are packed with free content! -------------------- incoming spoiler read it at your own risk! Spoiler: Vigier G.V Wood HH American Stratocaster Maple Standart with X2N bridge pickups Samwick Artist custom modified Baswood Lespaul with S.Duncan JB and N56 pickups Self made Fretless Strat type made of Rosewood/Maple with self wound Neck and Ibanez V8 Bridge Pickups Floor Pod 2.0 Amp Simulation System Pod Xt Pro Rack Amp Simulation System Digitech TSR 12 Rack Effect and Studio Reverb Behringer Composer Rack Compressor Expander Morley Bad Horsie Wah Pedal Behringer FB1010 Floor Board it, surely, spoiled me!!! and may the force be with you :)

Ajmurrell View Member Profile	Feb 2 2009, 01:10 AM
Feb 2 2009, 01:10 AM	Learning Tone Master Posts: 628 Joined: 15-August 08 From: London, UK	My personal advice is to get some professional advice. I'm not trying to say that following peoples advice here would be a bad idea, its just that with something this serious, you don't want to put yourself in harms way. Do you have a confidential phone advice line in Holland? Or something like a Citizens Advice Bereau? Don't want to step on anyones shoes here, I just think before following anyones advice, you should regonise none of us can give a professional opinion on this matter. I am sorry to hear about it though, and wish you all the best. Do keep in touch and let us know you're ok. You are at GuitarMasterClass.net Don't miss today's free lick. Plus all our lessons are packed with free content! Don't miss today's free blues, jazz & country licks. Plus all our lessons are packed with free content! This post has been edited by Ajmurrell: Feb 2 2009, 01:11 AM -------------------- GMC Travel Agent, at your service.

fatb0t View Member Profile	Feb 2 2009, 05:11 AM
Feb 2 2009, 05:11 AM	GMC:er Posts: 1.202 Joined: 25-November 07	I'm sorry to hear this George... I had a friend once who had the same issue. His father was a military man and he thought it was normal to hit his kids and his wife... My friend moved out when he was 18, it helped his situation - I don't know about his mom and his sister. I would advise you to tell your school psychologist if you have one. You're dealing with a very difficult situation and there isn't much we can do from the confines of the internet. Your best bet really is professional help. I hope everything works out.. -Jonathan You are at GuitarMasterClass.net Don't miss today's free lick. Plus all our lessons are packed with free content! Don't miss today's free blues, jazz & country licks. Plus all our lessons are packed with free content!

SonofDestiny View Member Profile	Feb 2 2009, 09:16 PM
Feb 2 2009, 09:16 PM	GMC:er Posts: 551 Joined: 30-May 08 From: Netherlands	QUOTE (enforcer @ Feb 1 2009, 10:43 PM) Does your father drink? Does he do all this things in the influence of alchool? Nope, he doesn't at all. I think he's been raised the same way as he's trying to raise us. My grandma is pretty cruel and my dad is her puppet. Whatever she says he will do. It's so stupid. We got him to a good point once, but then she told him not to be like that and he went mental again. The weird thing that when he's not having his aggressive moods he is a nice guy. To the outside world he is always smiling and greeting everyone. Problem is that it's pretty fake. I talked to my best friend (well, nowadays ex-best friend) about this matter and he wouldn't believe me. Just acted like a proper smartass about it. That's why I just let this be.. My parents both have been in therapy already. So has my brother. That didn't work... It's so weird. Right now I feel like a betrayer thinking of this stuff and talking about it. No fights today though.. thank god. You are at GuitarMasterClass.net Don't miss today's free lick. Plus all our lessons are packed with free content! Don't miss today's free blues, jazz & country licks. Plus all our lessons are packed with free content! -------------------- Wishlist: the world.

enforcer View Member Profile	Feb 2 2009, 09:42 PM
Feb 2 2009, 09:42 PM	GMC:er Posts: 1.202 Joined: 23-September 08 From: Istanbul	Man, if it is not alchool doing this to him and he is faking to outside that he is like a good man that is a serious problem. You cant just leave your mom and your brother like that. Things may look grim, but dont let this cloud your judgement. Things cant be worse than this. There is a notion in psychology called "Conditionned desperation" You might experience this.Things are bad, and you cant break this cycle in with the fear of getting things worse. But I believe they cant be any worse. You should talk to a neighboor about this, and let him/her talk to your mom, and make her justify your point. And let others call the police or social services. You cant let this continue like this. My mother is a family legal consultant and a lawyer specialised in family issues so I just asked her about this situation. Your family needs external legal intervention. I hope you can get this right. You are at GuitarMasterClass.net Don't miss today's free lick. Plus all our lessons are packed with free content! Don't miss today's free blues, jazz & country licks. Plus all our lessons are packed with free content! -------------------- incoming spoiler read it at your own risk! Spoiler: Vigier G.V Wood HH American Stratocaster Maple Standart with X2N bridge pickups Samwick Artist custom modified Baswood Lespaul with S.Duncan JB and N56 pickups Self made Fretless Strat type made of Rosewood/Maple with self wound Neck and Ibanez V8 Bridge Pickups Floor Pod 2.0 Amp Simulation System Pod Xt Pro Rack Amp Simulation System Digitech TSR 12 Rack Effect and Studio Reverb Behringer Composer Rack Compressor Expander Morley Bad Horsie Wah Pedal Behringer FB1010 Floor Board it, surely, spoiled me!!! and may the force be with you :)

Trond Vold View Member Profile	Feb 3 2009, 12:00 AM
Feb 3 2009, 12:00 AM	Instructor Posts: 3.497 Joined: 16-February 08 From: Norge!	Ohman Thats a bad situation you got going on there. Like the rest, i'm no professional and i'm not really sure how to advice on something like this. But do you know if your brothers school-teachers have noticed something going on with him? Or knows that he's being beaten at home? If they sense something is wrong, then they have a responsability to report it to the authorities. Maybe something can be worked on from that angle? And this way you dont have to be the one taking that hard step to call it in yourself. You are at GuitarMasterClass.net Don't miss today's free lick. Plus all our lessons are packed with free content! Don't miss today's free blues, jazz & country licks. Plus all our lessons are packed with free content! -------------------- Guitars: Schecter Stiletto Classic, Jackson SLSMG, Ibanez RG-380 Japan, Gibson Les Paul Studio Amp: Marshall JMP-1 -> Rocktron Velocity 100 -> Marshall JCM-900 Lead 4x12 FX and stomps: T.C Electronics G-Sharp, Korg SDD-1200, Emma Transmorgrifier, BYOC Tribooster, GGG Green Ringer, Dinosaur Overdrive, Voodoo Lab SuperFuzz, Sovtek Bassballs, Line6 Tap Tremolo, EHX Screaming Bird. ___________________________________________________ My Lessons! My Instructor Board! My Myspace!

opeth.db View Member Profile	Feb 3 2009, 12:27 AM
Feb 3 2009, 12:27 AM	Learning Apprentice Player Posts: 1.156 Joined: 11-September 08 From: Cleveland, Ohio	Not a professional here but you owe it to your brother and your mother to do something and not sit on the side lines. To many times people wait, wait, and wait only to find out the worst circumstances only to come true and your in denial the rest of your life asking yourself what you should have done. My prayers are with you and your family. You are at GuitarMasterClass.net Don't miss today's free lick. Plus all our lessons are packed with free content! Don't miss today's free blues, jazz & country licks. Plus all our lessons are packed with free content! -------------------- My Gear Ibanez RG570 Silver Jackson Ofset V Randy Rhodes Signature Mitchell Acoustic Custom Ibanez S series (Currently working on) X2 XDS95 Digital Wireless system Line 6 MKII 8 Channel USB Roland Mixer My Site www.shredwork.com Learn how to count. It's what separates the hack and the pros IMHO. -LCSDDS

MickeM View Member Profile	Feb 3 2009, 03:50 PM
Feb 3 2009, 03:50 PM	Born of NWOBHM, Moderation Team Leader Posts: 8.562 Joined: 9-January 07 From: Stockholm, Sweden	Like many said, we're not professionals. We can't really present a solution that will hold water, infact, suggestions could though they sound good in theory make things worse. And we don't want to do that. I hope there's a solution somehere for you and your brother to this problem. You're still young and shouldn't have to deal with this kind of problem, it's very unfair that you find yourself in that situation. So keep in mind there are people who do this for a living that could help. I'm closing the thread now because of the sensitivity of the matter together with the fact that we're not really competent on the subject. We don't want to risk making things worse. I think it's safe to say though that we all wish the best for you and your family. You are at GuitarMasterClass.net Don't miss today's free lick. Plus all our lessons are packed with free content! Don't miss today's free blues, jazz & country licks. Plus all our lessons are packed with free content! -------------------- My bands homepage All time favourites: B. Streisand - Woman in Love, M. Hopkin - Those were the days, L. Richie - Hello

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