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jstcrsn
post Nov 19 2011, 08:34 PM
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found out this week ,through a doctor recommended ultra sound( due to my wife, being pregnant, and her belly getting to large , to fast)


that are baby will only survive for a few hours if not minutes.If it is even born alive
the doctor determined that the baby has a tricomy 13 or 18. This is where there is an extra 13 or 18 chromosome that attaches itself to another pair of chromosomes causing sometimes serious defects and ours has several
1.Left ventrical is under developed
2. the kidneys are to laarge (this shows the kidneys are developing incorrectly)
3. underdeveloped brain and possibly collapsed eye socket
4. Possibly some of the intestines are on the outside
5. A bilateral cleft palate ( the baby will not have roof in his mouth, He will not be able to be feed normally)
The doctors are pretty much telling us that the child is in the highest percentile to not survive
so instead of preparing for a baby we are preparing for the funeral,signing "do not resuscitate"papers
however in this case we will be able to bury him at our family farm,and I will be able to make the casket

I was reading the social thread and realized like a lot of you,that because of life and kids ,much of my social life is here as well
so I thought I'd share
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Bogdan Radovic
post Nov 19 2011, 08:38 PM
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This is so sad sad.gif
I wish you all the strength through the tough times.... Stuff like this shouldn't happen... sad.gif


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post Nov 19 2011, 09:11 PM
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Don't even know what to say, All I can do is wish the best through the coming times, for you, your wife and your family.

These things should never have to happen.
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post Nov 19 2011, 09:11 PM
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I am sorry to hear this.
My thoughts are with both of you.
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post Nov 19 2011, 09:23 PM
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As Brett said, lost for words man. Just remember that there is a reason for everything in life and with time, things will get better. Our daughter, now 9, was born with multiple issues. Not as severe and after 9 surgeries to repair things, she is a budding 4th grader.

The first 3 years of her life were very trying for me and I questioned a lot of things as to why this happened. I can assure you now, I am a stronger person and we are a stronger family because of it.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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Sinisa Cekic
post Nov 19 2011, 10:09 PM
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Damn,very very sorry man ! Life can be a really cruel sad.gif


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post Nov 19 2011, 10:41 PM
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As with everyone else I'm lost for words. My thoughts are with you and your family.


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post Nov 19 2011, 10:43 PM
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I'm real sorry to hear this, I wish you and your family the best my friend.


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post Nov 20 2011, 12:49 AM
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I cannot even imagine the grief you and your family are going through. It makes me very sad sad.gif I wish you and your family strength in the times to come..


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post Nov 20 2011, 02:05 AM
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there is nothing I can say about your situation mate, just share this with you:

Once I recieved a power point presentation of Dr. Elisabeth Kubler-ross, she was supposed to be the person that most studied about death, she did a research with 20000 people that were dead for minutes and came back etc etc. she has a book "On life after dead" or "On death and Dying".. the prhase i want to share is
when asked "why the little boys died?" she said that we all have a lesson to learn on earth, and when learned it, we are ready to heaven, our truly destination, this life is just a school.
Her book might be quite intresting, and of course it is better explained that my basic writting.
Search some info on the net about her, maybe it can help with this difficult moment that you and your family are passing.

Best of luck
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post Nov 20 2011, 03:02 AM
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Oh my this is heartbreaking and sad far beyond anything I have ever had to deal with so I can't imagine what you and your wife must be going thru.So so sorry. Your family will be in our thoughts and prayers as well Jstcrsn. Hang tough man

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post Nov 20 2011, 09:11 AM
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I don't know what to say besides I am really sorry for you and your little family. I wish you all the strength you need to get through this.

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post Nov 20 2011, 10:09 AM
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We are deeply sorry about this, let's hope you can go through this together as a couple, right now is where you need each other the most.

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post Nov 20 2011, 10:10 AM
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I am very sorry to hear this - my thoughts go to you family!


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post Nov 20 2011, 10:31 AM
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Very sorry to hear this - our thoughts arewith you and your family.


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post Nov 20 2011, 10:33 PM
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thanks everyone for your well wishes
we don't think life is cruel and we are not mad at it.
you know what they say " When you make plans ,Life happens"
Thanks again
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post Nov 20 2011, 11:11 PM
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Our thoughts and prayers are with you. I'm sure I speak for your entire GMC family when I say that we are saddened, deeply and would like to offer anything we can do for you and yours in this time of great need.


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post Nov 21 2011, 03:27 AM
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Very sorry to hear this. You & your wife will be on my prayer list. Thanks for sharing.

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post Nov 21 2011, 04:02 AM
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My heart goes out to you and your family. Nothing compares to finding out that something is wrong with your child.. and having not met them yet doesn't make it any easier.

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post Nov 21 2011, 04:23 AM
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Really, Really hate to hear this. I wish you all the strength to get your family through this tough time.
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