Public Opinions, In Which we discuss how we think others perceive us. |
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Public Opinions, In Which we discuss how we think others perceive us. |
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Dec 29 2013, 09:10 AM |
I think that most of the time (when I'm not preoccupied with something) the average person feels a whole lot better about the interaction than I think I've done. I tend to beat myself up about stuff when looking in hindsight though
If you can learn to be genuinely interested in other people and their lives, you'll gain friends and fans. The golden rule is to make the other person feel better about themselves than they did before the interaction with you. That is definitely one thing I'm trying to keep reminding myself every day, I have friends for whom this is natural, for me not so much! This post has been edited by PosterBoy: Dec 29 2013, 09:14 AM -------------------- My SoundCloud
Gear Tyler Burning Water 2K Burny RLG90 with BK Emeralds Fender US Tele with BK Piledrivers Epiphone 335 with Suhr Thornbuckers PRS SE Custom 24-08 Ax8 Fessenden SD10 PSG Quilter TT15 |
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Dec 29 2013, 09:37 AM |
If you can learn to be genuinely interested in other people and their lives, you'll gain friends and fans. +1 I learned a long time ago that 'to be an interesting person one only needs to be interested'. What's the most common line a performer on a stage will utter? ... "Hey, how you all doin' out there?" Applause, applause, applause ... -------------------- - Ken Lasaine
https://soundcloud.com/klasaine2/foolin-the-clouds https://soundcloud.com/klasaine2/surfin-at-the-country-hop Soundcloud assorted ... https://soundcloud.com/klasaine3 New record ... http://www.cdbaby.com/cd/kenlasaine Solo Guitar ... https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLXZh...5iIdO2tpgtj25Ke Stuff I'm on ... https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLXZh...b-dhb-4B0KgRY-d |
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Dec 29 2013, 01:03 PM |
There are a few aspects regarding this idea I learned that throughout my life, I will learn from EVERYONE. For me, one of the most important things in life is meeting people and hearing their stories, receiving their energy - if it's good, of course and sharing some of mine. You cannot evolve as a human being if you are locked up in a shell and not opening up to people, especially as a person who strives for becoming or considers him/herself an artist. A great encounter can lead to the creation of a great song that has a great story behind it. That's worth more than a million notes On the other hand, as an artist, you have a great responsibility on your shoulders. You are an icon and people see you that way. What you do and what you say can be taken as a holy word by many... literally. I think it's important to realize this and allow selflessness to kick in and set an example for everyone. So you're saying Don't sleep with your groupies or do sleep with them? -------------------- My SoundCloud
Gear Tyler Burning Water 2K Burny RLG90 with BK Emeralds Fender US Tele with BK Piledrivers Epiphone 335 with Suhr Thornbuckers PRS SE Custom 24-08 Ax8 Fessenden SD10 PSG Quilter TT15 |
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Dec 29 2013, 06:34 PM |
There are a few aspects regarding this idea I learned that throughout my life, I will learn from EVERYONE. For me, one of the most important things in life is meeting people and hearing their stories, receiving their energy - if it's good, of course and sharing some of mine. You cannot evolve as a human being if you are locked up in a shell and not opening up to people, especially as a person who strives for becoming or considers him/herself an artist. A great encounter can lead to the creation of a great song that has a great story behind it. That's worth more than a million notes On the other hand, as an artist, you have a great responsibility on your shoulders. You are an icon and people see you that way. What you do and what you say can be taken as a holy word by many... literally. I think it's important to realize this and allow selflessness to kick in and set an example for everyone. Wise words mate. This is something that I learnt with the pass of time. In the old days, I was very obsessive, and used to stay inside of my bedroom, playing guitar, alone without too many "outside" experiences, and then I started to realize that I was a very technician musician but with not too much to tell. Time taught me how much you grow by interacting with other people and from real world experiences, and that's how you become a better person, and this is the only way you can be a good artist. Reciprocity is the key for truth creativity in music and in life. The only way to live your life with more quality. -------------------- My lessons
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Dec 30 2013, 12:26 PM
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. It can create an atmosphere of being a douchbag is douchbag on of those words that should be underlined for explanation |
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Dec 30 2013, 12:56 PM |
ha ha Let's just end up with "unpleasant guy"
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Dec 30 2013, 02:59 PM |
I say be your BEST self
-------------------- My SoundCloud
Gear Tyler Burning Water 2K Burny RLG90 with BK Emeralds Fender US Tele with BK Piledrivers Epiphone 335 with Suhr Thornbuckers PRS SE Custom 24-08 Ax8 Fessenden SD10 PSG Quilter TT15 |
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Dec 30 2013, 06:33 PM |
What does David Lee Roth say? "Sincerity is the name of the game ... and once you can fake that you've got it made"
-------------------- - Ken Lasaine
https://soundcloud.com/klasaine2/foolin-the-clouds https://soundcloud.com/klasaine2/surfin-at-the-country-hop Soundcloud assorted ... https://soundcloud.com/klasaine3 New record ... http://www.cdbaby.com/cd/kenlasaine Solo Guitar ... https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLXZh...5iIdO2tpgtj25Ke Stuff I'm on ... https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLXZh...b-dhb-4B0KgRY-d |
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Dec 30 2013, 08:56 PM |
I'm suggesting all performers are. It's the nature of the beast ... and not necessarily a bad thing.
-------------------- - Ken Lasaine
https://soundcloud.com/klasaine2/foolin-the-clouds https://soundcloud.com/klasaine2/surfin-at-the-country-hop Soundcloud assorted ... https://soundcloud.com/klasaine3 New record ... http://www.cdbaby.com/cd/kenlasaine Solo Guitar ... https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLXZh...5iIdO2tpgtj25Ke Stuff I'm on ... https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLXZh...b-dhb-4B0KgRY-d |
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