Hi there, We are having some trouble in our band, and we don't know what to do
First of all we don't having any rules, like whene im visiting my brother and the rest of the band is making a song or editing a song while im not there(And they are not telling me that they does it
).
So the next time we get together and start play, then they say "Eyy Chris, We have edited the song".
Then im getting real mad :S. and if the bassist or the singer is absent and we are editing something in the song. then the bassist or the singer can refuse to perform it on a stage because they don't like it :S
the 2nd one that only the singer knows what the song text is about, so whene we are on the stage playing, we don't know what the heck he's singing :S.
the 3rd one is that the singer and the bassist is the "boss", and we are just doing everything they say we must do.
I would say that this has been going on for something like a year and
now i just want to quit the band, and start an new project with the drummer the guitarist.
any suggestion how i can get this band getting more serious?