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Sep 29 2008, 10:18 PM
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I've been playing guitar for 6 years and I can't do anything. I'm so slow at downpicking, alternate picking, legato and everything. I'm sure my picking technique is wrong and I can't build speed or play guitar at all. Why am I so useless? Are some people just not meant to play guitar. I just want to crawl into a hole and die. I really want to be good on guitar but I'm utterly useless and getting worse. sad.gif I don't know what to do anymore.

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Sep 29 2008, 11:25 PM
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Hey man. Take it easy. I've been playing "since forever" and there has been ups and downs. Phases with quick evolution and phases where I forgot lots of stuff.

From what you told, I think there are other things that are reflecting on your guitar playing. If you are stressed, that reflects in all the other things of your life. I've been like that 2 years ago. That can be the reason you feel like you are getting worse in guitar.

Playing guitar shall be your way of resting from a demanding day by day life and not another burden. If you look at guitar practice and playing guitar as another obligation, you will feel you are not going anywhere, and you start losing your passion. We all know that becoming a guitar hero requires some dedication and discipline, but it requires passion much more than that. There is no point in forcing yourself into boring exercises if you start losing interest after that. On the contrary, simply play things you enjoy. Meet some friends and play some simple songs on acoustic. Simple things like that can make you much happier than 2 hours of metronome exercise.

My advice is that you try to identify the real source(s) of the problem and work on them. wink.gif The way you feel about your guitar playing is probably more of symptom than the reason.
And then ask help from people around you. The doctors, of course, but also your friends, family...

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- OrganisedConfusion   6 Years Wasted   Sep 29 2008, 10:18 PM
- - Fran   Hey O.C. relax man!, sometimes we see things b...   Sep 29 2008, 10:27 PM
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- - audiopaal   Well, I don't think you're that bad.. You ...   Sep 29 2008, 10:29 PM
- - Fran   QUOTE (OrganisedConfusion @ Sep 29 2008, 11...   Sep 29 2008, 10:34 PM
- - Siggum   Well, first of all playing guitar and music in gen...   Sep 29 2008, 10:36 PM
- - OrganisedConfusion   I don't enjoy playing guitar because I don...   Sep 29 2008, 10:44 PM
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- - OrganisedConfusion   I'm starting to learn to drive this week also....   Sep 29 2008, 11:00 PM
- - OrganisedConfusion   I've been 7 times but being miserable it's...   Sep 29 2008, 11:05 PM
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- - ZakkWylde   -Totally Off-Topic; but when I saw the tilte of th...   Sep 29 2008, 11:27 PM
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- - ZakkWylde   At least my stupidity cheared you up a little...   Sep 29 2008, 11:30 PM
- - besip   there is question are you got depresion just from...   Sep 29 2008, 11:34 PM
- - mattacuk   OC, im sorry you’re having a crappy time at the ...   Sep 29 2008, 11:44 PM
|- - OrganisedConfusion   I don't eat healthy at all but I do get lots o...   Sep 29 2008, 11:49 PM
|- - OzRob   Hey Org, Matt mentioned cognitive behaviour thera...   Sep 29 2008, 11:51 PM
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- - Hisham Al-Sanea   i think your musical age not 6 years exactly we co...   Sep 29 2008, 11:48 PM
- - mattacuk   Well cutting out the drink totally may be a really...   Sep 29 2008, 11:59 PM
- - Praetorian   Sounds to me like you are on the verge of one of t...   Sep 30 2008, 12:10 AM
- - Fsgdjv   I agree with the cognitive behaviour therapy, I th...   Sep 30 2008, 12:26 AM
- - Eat-Sleep-andJam   Heyy OC, *Slaps you in face* Your not useless...   Sep 30 2008, 12:39 AM
|- - OrganisedConfusion   I seem to write worse music when I'm in this s...   Sep 30 2008, 12:59 AM
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- - whammysam   I totally agree with mattacuk. Mostly, about life...   Sep 30 2008, 01:15 AM
- - Jose Mena   Hay man, try to relax, and try to focus on the goo...   Sep 30 2008, 01:38 AM
- - Enucleation   I hope you get better OC, really I do Maybe thi ne...   Sep 30 2008, 02:59 AM
- - Nemanja Filipovic   Wow OC,you are just coming up trough a rough time....   Sep 30 2008, 07:20 AM
- - Marek Rojewski   I don't have to much "ways" of deali...   Sep 30 2008, 08:44 AM
- - Rooks   Hey man, it's ok too feel like that sometimes....   Sep 30 2008, 08:56 AM
|- - Vinod Saranga   Hey OC  you just confused. Get orgainized agai...   Oct 1 2008, 12:11 PM
|- - OrganisedConfusion   QUOTE (Vinod Saranga @ Oct 1 2008, 12:11 ...   Oct 1 2008, 12:12 PM
|- - Muris Varajic   I have nothing much to add OC, it's has been a...   Oct 2 2008, 08:36 AM
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- - Skyla°Lit   If OC is really in a depression-like state, I don...   Sep 30 2008, 09:31 AM
- - Rooks   I really hope you mean analyzing -sorry   Sep 30 2008, 09:52 AM
|- - Skyla°Lit   Ooops... all fixed now Thanks Rooks   Sep 30 2008, 09:57 AM
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- - BodomESP   Well obviously the source of your depression is gu...   Sep 30 2008, 10:02 AM
- - OrganisedConfusion   I can't believe how many replies there are try...   Sep 30 2008, 10:08 AM
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- - fatb0t   OC aren't you studying for a PhD or something?...   Sep 30 2008, 01:49 PM
- - OrganisedConfusion   I am doing a PhD yes but I'm struggling at the...   Sep 30 2008, 01:54 PM
- - fatb0t   As I look at it, guitars and dogs are the only thi...   Sep 30 2008, 02:46 PM
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- - Ivan Milenkovic   Hey OC, if your bandmates don't help you with ...   Sep 30 2008, 03:18 PM
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- - Pedja Simovic   O.C take it easy man. Life is too short to worry a...   Oct 1 2008, 01:17 PM
- - OrganisedConfusion   I don't think I do play my favourite songs eno...   Oct 1 2008, 01:26 PM
- - seagull   A lot of great advice has been given in this topic...   Oct 1 2008, 01:54 PM
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- - Rooks   You should hear me play that'l maybe cheer you...   Oct 1 2008, 02:08 PM
|- - OrganisedConfusion   QUOTE (Rooks @ Oct 1 2008, 02:08 PM) You ...   Oct 1 2008, 02:43 PM
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- - Vasilije Vukmirovic   Everybody go through that period. Paul Gilbert has...   Oct 1 2008, 06:57 PM
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